How to Make Sure Krauser Doesn’t Have Sex With Your Girlfriend
Read this post by Krauser.
If you’re like me, you probably had two reactions.
First, respect for the game. Maybe you even learned a thing or two.
Second, uneasiness. Maybe a bit of a pit in your stomach.
The uneasiness is caused by the fact that a relationship built up over months and years can be destroyed by the actions a girl takes in just a few seconds. All the time, emotions, and resources that both parties have committed to the relationship are destroyed with just one decision. A PUA presses a few buttons and says a few of the right words, and an innocent love has vanished. Would you continue dating a girl who responds to a PUA this way, even though she never actually physically cheats? You would be a fool if you did.
Sure, it is not the most moral thing to try to bang somebody’s girl. Krauser is, in his own words, “a bit of a dodgy cunt” sometimes. But the seducer’s crime is miniscule compared to that of the seduced. The seducer promised chastity to nobody, gave nobody his word. Rather than lament the state of the universe and vilify the male sex drive, just accept that if you have a hot girl, guys are going to try to fuck her. Dodgy cunts are everywhere.
So what can you do?
Screen her. Screen the shit out of any girl before you trust her to be sexually faithful. Guys who claim a girl’s sexual past means nothing are retarded. Know her relationship patterns. Go through the list of common slut tells. Know her influences, does she have you gogrrll feminist friends, or maybe a bitter divorced mother who will feed her lies about men and the sexual market? Does she love attention? Does she have guy friends because she “doesn’t get along” with other girls? or does she go on girl’s nights out with her slutty BFFs? Screen out cheating risks, choose a more homebody, shy girl. One who was given a religious background is preferred. Don’t accuse me of NAWALT, you bitter fucks, some girls really are less likely to cheat and you know it.
How many girls in today’s world will be able to pass a proper screening? Almost none.
Have regular sex. If you are not having sex with a girl the bare minimum of once a week, then she is not your girlfriend. I’ve read field reports of PUA’s boyfriend destroying on girls where the girl admits she hasn’t had sex for months. Now this makes you question what quality of girl these PUAs are seducing, because if a girl is attractive, her significant other will want to fuck her. Of course, the lack of sex can be a female choice: maybe her boyfriend is so beta that the thought of sex with him repulses her.
Just know the longer its been since you’ve had sex with your girl, the easier she will be for an alpha interloper to seduce. Are you in a long distance relationship? Too late.
If she’s not fucking you, she’s fucking somebody else.
Be good in bed. Read the Sex God Method. Watch the squirting orgasms video. Read this post. Follow Commandment XIV. Try new things. Avoid the routine sex so many couples fall victim to. Its no coincidence the quickest boyfriend destroyer routines are very sex-focused. This is the vulnerability of many a relationship.
Claim Ownership. You must lay down the frame that I, your God, am a jealous God and thou shalt not have any other gods but me. That pussy does not belong to you. That pussy belongs to me. Set clear frames of what you want in a partner. Set explicit standards of the fidelity you expect. Cheating goes beyond dick in vagina. Demanding high standard of behavior from a girl is alpha. If she refuses your demands, she doesn’t fear losing you. If you can’t bring yourself to make these demands, you fear losing her.
Meet her emotional needs. Dread and Romance. Give her the high of a girl who has won the committment of an alpha male, followed by the fear that she might lose him. Take her on a romantic date one night, then tell her to shut the fuck up the next day. Kiss her passionately in the morning, then call her from a loud bar during happy hour.
Don’t Slip. It’s a running joke, the girl who chops off her hair and gains 30 pounds right after her wedding. But comfort chips away at a man’s steel core as well. Keep hitting the gym. Pass shit tests, never stop teasing. Don’t stay in your bum-ass loser job. Always be moving forward. Your life is a mission, she is not your prize. A relationship is not a laurel to be rested on.
Frost recommends getting her passwords and going through email/facebook. Put it this way:
How many pedestals would crumble if all betas were afforded just one scroll through their oneitis’s text messages?
If you are ethically against going through a girl’s private accounts, then that is fine: don’t do it. However, if you are scared to go through them because you don’t want what you find to change your view of her, then you are in fantasy world. There is the dream world in your head, and then there is truth. Be prepared to deal with the demons or they might confront you later.
Trust your gut.
There’s some weird inner game shit about jealousy out there. Some guys are fucking cuckold wannabes, I swear.
No, complete lack of jealousy is not something a man should cultivate. Jealousy is a useful indicator that you don’t trust your girl. If you feel jealous when your girl is going on girl’s nights out or texting guy friends, maybe you should be. Jealousy sometimes happens when a guy knows he is low value and every guy is a potential threat, but really it happens a lot because a man’s emotions show an untrustworthy girl on the radar. Jealousy is an evolved instinct to keep you from raising another man’s child. Even in the modern times of contraception and DNA tests, the right pangs of jealousy keep you from wasting your time and looking like a fool. Don’t squash it, you need it. Trust your gut.
Remember: Jealousy isn’t the problem. It’s the scarcity mentality that causes you to stay with a girl who makes you feel jealousy that is the problem.
Having an attractive girlfriend for years and expecting her to stay madly in love with you the entire time is a big ask. The old school way to keep a girl faithful was marry her young, keep her out of the workplace so she doesn’t end up underneath her bosses desk, and knock her up a few times, thus bonding her to you and decreasing her value to all other men. That was a fairly reliable assurance of fidelity. Today’s world is much harsher and girl’s have much different incentives. After the honeymoon phase wears off, be watchful.
Don’t worry about Krauser, he’ll do just fine.
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