Do you want kids?
Think about it, because if you do, you are facing a large obligation.
Protect, provide, teach, nurture.
Oh yeah, and also making sure your son can get laid.
The ability to get laid is important for a man’s well-being. For many guys, this doesn’t come easy and they end up needing to learn game in their late teens or twenties. Some never learn it at all.
Learned game from the internet has done many guys good, but most guys would have been saved a lot of time and frustration if they just had good fathers who taught them the basics.
With the right guidance and circumstances, any kid can become a natural with women.
Here’s a quick guide:
Choose his mother carefully. You are only half responsible for the genetic outcome of your child. You want a thin, young, healthy wife to help assure a healthy child. The mother should embrace the idea of wifely submission and a captain-first mate relationship in which she is not the captain. This will be your son’s first relationship model and it should embed natural gender roles in his mind forever. Also, look at the men in her family. Is the thought that your son may turn out something like them palatable?
Stay married. If you’re choosing to have kids in a legal system that is so comically slanted against fathers, your first task is maintaining access to your son so you can have the ability to influence him. One hit from a judge’s gavel and your influence can be confined to every other weekend while the rest of the time he’s being indoctrinated by a bitter, overbearing single mother. She’ll betaize him real quick. Therefore, the first step to being a good father is to have tight game.
Being alpha is not enough. There is the theory that alpha guys have strong alpha dads. Sometimes this plays out, but an alpha is dominating. Sometimes a strong alpha dominates his son. The son grows up being submissive to a strong man’s orders and sees that as his place in the world. This will chip away at a young son’s confidence, and turn him into a soft beta worker bee as an adult. If a son fears his alpha father, he may become a mamma’s boy as he sees his mom as the “safe” person in the house. A high powered alpha concentrated on his own rise in business or other manly pursuit may not take his son under his wing and teach him the proper skills. The alpha father may also be a natural who possesses seduction skills, but is unable to verbalize and teach them. An alpha father is a necessary but not sufficient condition for raising a natural son. Some actual fathering is required.
Confidence, not tactics. I’ve seen some guys joke they’ll be giving their son a copy of Mystery Method when he turns 14. The heart is in the right place, but you’re better off focusing on natural confidence and a deep understanding of female nature instead. Don’t teach him dork terminology like AMOGing and A3. Remember, Mystery wasn’t a natural, he was just deconstructing the behavior of naturals. If you do it right, your son will be the guy that Mystery was trying to emulate, not a guy emulating Mystery.
Develop his confidence over other men. This is best done through sports and fighting. Get him going with baseball and football, boxing or BJJ. Keep him around the skill level where he can compete and win. If he sucks at one sport, find another one where he flourishes. Athletic skill is the single best predictor of high school popularity (and by proxy, high school pussy getting), so you are crippling your son’s future social status if you don’t get him going in sports. Don’t skip the trained fighting. A man who is fully confident in his ability to punch another man in the face is a man who will not be intimidated by social interaction. You should not fear the day your son has his first fight, you should embrace it.
Give him space. This is actually so important that a kid whose father deserts him can end up pretty alpha as long as his resultant single mother is not overbearing. Good parenting trumps absent parenting trumps overbearing parenting, when it comes to getting laid. For me personally, my parents made it their mission in life to make sure I didn’t get laid. Curfews, strict rules, constant supervision. If you want your son to seize his destiny and finger some sluts before his 16th birthday, you’re gonna have to stop planning out every second of his day and let him outside of your vision a little bit. Let him get in a little trouble while he’s still a minor. If he does something society doesn’t approve of but you know helps him as a man (like getting in a fight or fucking his teacher), tell him to take the heat like a man but let him know you’re proud of him.
Encourage leadership and responsibility. Let him lead the way for a bit while hiking. Put him in charge of younger siblings or cousins every once in a while. When he plays a sport, encourage him to go for team captain, quarterback, pitcher. When talks about future ambitions, encourage him to be a doctor, not a nurse; an owner, not a worker; a fire chief, not a firefighter.
Have him fight his own battles. If he has problems with a “bully” at school, do not talk to the principal. Do not talk to the teacher. Do not talk to the bully’s parents. Tell him he needs to stand up for himself. Give him the physical and verbal tools to do so, but tell him he has to fight his own fight.
Discourage gossip. Gossip is inherently feminine in nature. If he tattletales, give him the punishment he was hoping you’d give the person he’s tattling on. A line must be toed here because he has to know that he can come to you if someone is doing something that could cause them harm, but its important he learn early in life not to be an officious gossipy fucknut. Snitches get stitches.
Teach him skills. Your son should have the following skills before his 17th birthday: fighting, grilling, shooting a gun, basic plumbing, driving stick shift, personal finance and budgeting, drilling, woodworking and home improvement, auto maintenance. Fishing and hunting if you’re so inclined. Any unique skills you have should be passed on to your son. Inner game is great, but true self confidence is derived from mastery over one’s environment. A man with useful skills is a self-confident man.
Keep him around girls. This may be the most important part. A little sister is optimal, but that’s not always controllable. Whatever you do, keep him around girls his age. Cousins, playmates, neighbors, whatever.
Have him approach girls. When he’s cute and pre-pubescent, take him to a park or farmers market and have him approach smoking hot babes. Give him cute stuff to say, he’ll have a 0% blowout rate. Make it fun for him, not “daddy is making me talk to girls again”. Use monetary incentives if necessary.
Give him a manly name. A kid’s name tells you a lot about his parents. If his name is Aidan or Ashton, his parents are liberal status whore pussies who love telling people their kids name just to hear them coo, and the dad is beta as fuck to allow his wife to use his child as a tool for status-whoring. Fuck that. Tried and true masculine names look and sound masculine. As a general rule, if the name didn’t exist in 1940 it is a pussy name destined to get your kid wedgies and involutary celibacy. The following is a quicklist of acceptable names for a son: Jack, Nick, Tom, George, Edward, James, Gary, Roger, Russell, Michael, Sam, etc. This is a list mostly with White America in mind and it is not comprehensive, but you get the point.
Encourage him to be talkative. Teach him storytelling and humor. This should be shown by example as well. Stay charming and let your natural personality rub off on him.
Give him cool experiences to talk about. Boring people are boring because they don’t do cool things. Set your son up with skills, sports, hobbies and vacations to talk about and he’ll develop into a good conversationalist.
Drop in bits of knowledge when convenient.
Scene: I’m with my girlfriend and her 9 year old cousin.
“Trevor give me a hug!” she commands. He goes to do it.
“No, no, wait Trevor. Before you hug her make her say three nice things about you.” I say
He smiles and looks at her. She says “Trevor is cute. Trevor is smart. Trevor has a great smile”.
“Okay”, I say, “now you can hug her.” He hugs her.
“She appreciates that hug a lot more now that you made her work for it”, I say, “That’s how you have to treat girls”
My girlfriend fakes outrage and playfully punches me on the arm.
“When a girl hits you like that, she likes you” I tell him.
When he’s the right age, lay it all out. I guess this is known as “the talk”. Most dads suck at it, some of our dads left it to our mothers to do (big mistake). As a father, you have to give the talk, and give it right. Lay out everything about female nature, what they really want and what he should do about it. Once again, you’re not teaching tactics. The words “kino” and “false time constraint” shouldn’t leave your lips. You’re telling him chicks dig power and they like sex and being lead by a strong man makes them horny and he should go for what he wants. More likely, this is a series of talks. Buy him condoms and tell him never to jizz inside a girl unless he wants to get her pregnant, no matter what she says about birth control.
Encourage health, fitness and nutrition. Fat kids = child abuse. Growing kids need lots of calories, but lots of HEALTHY calories. His diet is high in protein and low in sugar/simple carbs. He drinks lots of milk during critical years to get taller. He should view exercise as good and healthy and an important part of being a man. He should know being fat is bad, fat people are subhuman and fat chicks are below his and your standard. He derives self-esteem from keeping himself looking and feeling good. Lead by example in this area.
Ease back on the “do what your mother tells you” rhetoric. A mother is an important nurturing and support figure to a growing child. However, unconditional subservience to a woman is not good for a boy after the age of 10 or so. When very young, he should obey her unconditionally for his own safety, but with puberty looming, he should respect her and obey her most of the time, but he and she both must know that you overrule her on the most important matters.
Get a dog. A dog teaches kids how to love and how to be in charge of something they love. The parallels between dog training and game are staggering. Maybe I’m biased here because I’ve had amazing dogs my whole life.
Don’t let electronics babysit him. Kids who spend all their time on TV and video games and computers end up boring adults who spend all their time on TV and video games and computers. Instill an anti-porn, anti-fap mindset in favor of a pro-going outside, pro-chasing pussy mindset, and anti-video game mindset in favor of a pro-going outside and getting dirty mindset.
Toss him a guitar. Most rockstars get started early. If your son has some musical aptitude, it would be nice to have the option to hone it early. Even if he’s not the next Slash, simply holding a guitar gets you laid.
Set up some dominoes for him to topple. This is fun. Buy a small piece of bar so he can easily be a bartender when he’s 18. Befriend families in the neighborhood who have hot daughters so he can have an in to fuck them. Get him a car. Get status enough in your profession that you can get him a job through networking or nepotism. Be a regular at a bar or strip club and pass the status on to him. Give him some space on vacations so he can game in a new environment.
Dose him with red pill politics. Liberals are bed-wetting pussies. Don’t let your son be a bed-wetting pussy. You must play defense against the liberal feminist school system that will indoctrinate him with bullshit and try to undo all of your hard work raising a man.
Make him aware of your sacrifice. As a guy with game, you will likely be passing up lots of pussy and fun times if you choose to have kids. Make him aware of this. He should realize his existence is a gift from you. This will make him respect you more, and a child who respects his father has higher self-worth because he instinctively understands that his father is his genes.
Instill genetic pride. Pride in one’s bloodline and where one comes from is pride in oneself.
Don’t overdo it on the sex stuff. Don’t be the ex-high school athlete trying to live out his dreams of sports glory through his son. Just because getting pussy was hard for you doesn’t mean your son has to make up for your lacking. Girls should only be a small but significant portion of your conversations with your son. You want to assist your son in getting laid, but don’t be the dad forcing an interest on his son if its not there. If you succeed in creating a natural, he’ll likely not view sex as that big of a deal, so your obsession with pushing him to get laid will strike him as weird.
Understand the ability to get laid anytime is just one ingredient in a man. He must also learn to provide for himself, protect himself and his loved ones, find his mission, and manage and build on the fortune you pass down to him.