Look at that girl. Hot, right?
She’s a 10.
You know what else, though?
One day, she is going to hit the wall.
One day, she will be so haggard and ugly that you wouldn’t even look at her if she stepped in the same elevator as you.
One day, she will be so wrinkled and mangy that the thought of fucking her will give you a de-rection.
One day, no man who is not the father of her child or related to her will give a shit about her.
One day, nobody will rack their brain for something to say to her. Nobody’s heart will start racing at the mere sight of her.
One day, nobody will want to look at a picture of her.
One day, if she would dress in that same lingerie and show you that exact same pose, your reaction would be pure disgust.
Still afraid to approach her?
The wall is cruel in that it robs beauty from the world. The wall is also necessary in that it helps force a woman to be modest or accept foul consequences.
Let’s take a look at the sexual market options of an extremely hot woman as she runs through life.
Today, at age 20, she is a 10. Every man wants her. Every woman wants to be her. She attracts cads, dad material, and even the rare holy grail of guys who could be cads but want to be dads. Agencies pay her for her photograph. Men approach her often. People buy her things and give her stuff for free. No door is closed to her.
At 25, she is a 9. She is still jerkoff material for horny betas browsing her facebook page. The beta unattractive men still worship her. Cads will still gladly take her for a romp. She gets approached maybe slightly more now, the guys who were too nervous to approach her when she was a 10 are now trying to talk to her. Though approaches have gone up, quality of man has gone slightly down. The attractive cad and dad combo suitors are still around but less enthusiastic, and she notices the really really hot men she craves have their eyes set on slightly younger women.
Five years pass, she is now 30. She’s now an 8 maximum, probably less. The modeling agency hasn’t called in four years. The ever present beta dads still worship her. There are far fewer cads chasing her and they are less tolerant of resistance and time before sex. If she doesn’t put out after the second date, she never hears from guys again. If she does put out before the second date, she still doesn’t hear from guys again. She is just a notch. Those sexy yet safe cad/dad combos are all swept off the market by smarter women. Men in her preferred age range who would consider her for serious relationships are either nauseatingly beta, or have baggage, emotional or otherwise. Rarely do men approach her on the street.
Another five years. She is now 35. At the very best, she is a 7. She is never approached on the street anymore. Even the beta dad guys seem to have baggage now. The disney prince type admirable men are vanished from her dating sphere. Even cad attention is dwindling.
Five christmases tick off the calendar and she hits 40. The absolute best she can be is a 6 (and thats god damn generous). She signs up for online dating and sees young up and coming cads in their early 20s want to use her for a quick secret confidence building fuck. Caddish guys nearer her age will hit it, but they tolerate zero resistance or bullshit before sex. Only very sexless vanilla guys who do not stimulate her emotions at all will take her on a second date.
Our girl hits 45. Cads don’t want her anymore. Cats don’t either, but she has them anyway.
The lesson for women is leverage your fucking youth and beauty for all its worth while you have them. I don’t mean for money. I don’t mean for sex. I mean leverage them into something long-lasting and worthwhile. Twenty year-old Sarah’s choices have far-reaching consequences for fifty-year old Sarah’s quality of life.
No matter how much money or great sex your looks get you while you are 20, it won’t make people give a shit about you when you are 50.
The happiest women are the ones who used the bait of youthful beauty to settle down with a good husband who wanted a family. At 55 do you want kids and grandkids and stability or a match.com account?
Know that you are a depreciating asset to men in general. As your value to all men decreases, you must build your value to one well-chosen man by proving trustworthy over and over, being a source of feminine support, and being a producer and care-giver to his genetic spawn.
The lesson for men: Take a look at that gorgeous girl. She is a walking expiration date. Her power in this world is fleeting. She is the temporary head coach knowing he’s getting replaced at the end of the season.
Do not see her as a 20 year old hottie.
See her as a person.
This is just a snapshot of her life, and she will change drastically.
Her beauty will fade.
What else she got?